SNAP ! * SNAP ! * SNAP ! *

today,
some time before dinner...................

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my mom tells me and my sister a story...
the story is about her eldest sister...
her eldest sister was loved someone and the person loved her too..
but, their father didn't like that person to be his son-in-law..
then, their father forced his eldest daughter to marry with another man.
of course she refused and struggled for her love..
but, tradition and the power-of-a-father won.
so finally, she married with the man that her father choose.
some time before her marriage, my mom always saw her with her tears all over her eyes,
and on D day, her make-up was faded because of her tears.
even some time after her marriage, she was still crying every single day.

[can't imagine how tortured she was]

a few years later, she could move on and be pleased by her husband.
until now, she's still living with her husband and never divorced.
now she has more than 10 grandchildren...

[now that's what I called faith]



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Moral for me :

I must accept everything what my parents do to me because that is my destiny.
no matter how hard I struggled, in the end I must fulfill what my parents want from me.

so the point is, it will be a useless thing if I against my parents.
because however, I need them and they are really important for me.